My teenage son killed someone in a drunk driving accident and is in prison, and I do not know how to grieve for the victim's family while also grieving for my child's destroyed future.
More people experience this than they realize.
Loving someone who has done terrible harm creates an impossible emotional landscape of competing loyalties and valid griefs.
“Where Are You with Grief and guilt?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.