My therapist asked me what I wanted and I sat there for ten minutes unable to answer because I have spent so long focusing on what everyone else needs that I have lost track of my own desires.
More people experience this than they realize.
You have become so fluent in other people's emotional languages that you have forgotten how to speak your own.
“Where Are You with Codependency?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.