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Why some people grieve through doing instead of feeling

My therapist says I need to 'process my feelings' about my mother's death but every time I try to sit with the sadness I just want to clean the house or organize something instead.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Action can be both a valid form of emotional processing and a strategy for avoiding difficult feelings.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The stages of grief — examined and critiqued?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.