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When setting boundaries feels like hurting someone you love

My therapist says I need to set boundaries with my mother but every time I try she cries and tells me I'm being cruel and I end up apologizing.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The architecture of guilt becomes the prison of both the guilty and the loved.

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