My twin brother and I were estranged when he died and now I feel like half of myself is missing but I also feel guilty for claiming grief when I chose not to know him.
More people experience this than they realize.
We can lose both the person and our claim to grieve them, creating a double exile from connection and from community support.
“Where Are You with Grief and love — what they share?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.