My uncle molested me as a child but he just died and my family expects me to participate in his funeral rites and I feel sick at the idea of honoring him.
More people experience this than they realize.
Death does not erase harm, yet social expectations can force survivors to perform honor they do not feel.
“Where Are You with Hindu grief practices — antyesti and shraddha?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.