My wife cheated on me three years ago and I chose to stay but I still check her phone compulsively and hate who I've become.
More people experience this than they realize.
You are learning that choosing to stay was only the first step in a much longer journey back to each other.
“Where Are You with Integration — not getting over but getting with?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.