My wife does all the emotional heavy lifting when we fight and I just shut down until she fixes it and I know this is not fair but I do not know how to change.
More people experience this than they realize.
Emotional avoidance masquerades as peace while burdening the other with repair work.
“Where Are You with Emotional Labor in Love?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.