My wife gained sixty pounds after our second child and I feel horrible that I am less attracted to her but I cannot make the feeling go away.
More people experience this than they realize.
You are discovering that desire cannot be willed and wrestling with whether love should transcend the body's honest responses.
“Where Are You with Physical Intimacy and Desire?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.