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Scenario

How to handle changes in physical attraction within marriage

My wife has gained sixty pounds since we got married three years ago and I feel terrible for noticing but I am not attracted to her anymore and I hate myself for it.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The body's honest responses can conflict with the heart's enduring commitments, creating a crisis of integration between desire and devotion.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Marriage as Institution and Lived Experience?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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