My wife has gained sixty pounds since we got married three years ago and I feel terrible for noticing but I am not attracted to her anymore and I hate myself for it.
More people experience this than they realize.
The body's honest responses can conflict with the heart's enduring commitments, creating a crisis of integration between desire and devotion.
“Where Are You with Marriage as Institution and Lived Experience?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.