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Why someone hot and cold keeps you hooked

She love bombed me for two months and now barely responds to my texts, but when I try to pull away she shows up with grand gestures that pull me right back in.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The intermittent reinforcement creates an addiction to the highs that makes the lows feel like your fault.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Love bombing and manipulation?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.