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Scenario

Why you keep responding to someone who only reaches out when they need you

She texts me every few weeks when she's drunk or lonely but never wants to actually be together and I keep responding because those moments feel like hope.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Intermittent reinforcement creates the strongest emotional bonds and the deepest suffering.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Unrequited Love and Longing?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.