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Scenario

When trauma teaches you boundaries that others call selfishness

Since my divorce I have started saying no to things that drain me and yes to things that feed me, but my family thinks I have become selfish and I wonder if they are right.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Crisis can clarify what truly matters, but honoring those insights often conflicts with others' expectations and your own conditioning about selflessness.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Post-traumatic growth — what can grow in the soil of loss?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.