Someone said 'you'll understand why this happened someday' about my wife's brain tumor and I have decided I do not want to understand anything that requires her death.
More people experience this than they realize.
The promise of eventual comprehension can insult those who would trade all wisdom for one more day with their beloved.
“Where Are You with What not to say to a grieving person?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.