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Scenario

When engagement becomes a way to avoid marriage

We have been engaged for three years and every time we try to plan the wedding something comes up and I am starting to think we are both scared to actually get married.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Sometimes the promise of commitment becomes a substitute for commitment itself.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Long-term partnership — sustaining love over time?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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