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Why closing the distance can feel scarier than staying apart

We have been planning to move in together for eighteen months but every time we get close to making it happen one of us finds a reason to delay.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The fantasy of togetherness sometimes provides more comfort than the reality of shared life with all its ordinary disappointments.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Long-distance love?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.