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When you cannot tell if your relationship is stable or stagnant

We have been together for fifteen years and I sometimes feel like we are just going through the motions but I cannot tell if this is normal long-term love or if we are dying.

Mira
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The line between comfortable love and emotional death can be terrifyingly thin.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Long-term partnership — sustaining love over time?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.