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Scenario

When writer friends struggle with simultaneous success and competition

My best friend and I both got book deals around the same time and now there's this weird competitive undercurrent to everything we talk about—sales numbers, reviews, publicity opportunities. We used to be each other's biggest champions but now every conversation feels like we're keeping score, and I don't know how to get back to just celebrating each other's work.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Success can poison friendship when celebration becomes comparison and shared dreams become parallel rivalries.

Your guide for this
Mura
Mura works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The writing life?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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