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When couples disagree about embracing imperfection in shared spaces

My partner and I are renovating our home together and I keep wanting to preserve the weathered wood and old imperfections while they want to fix and perfect everything. We both say we love wabi-sabi but we're discovering we have completely different ideas about what embracing imperfection actually means when it's our space.

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What we've seen

Two people are learning that aesthetic philosophy becomes viscerally personal when applied to the intimate space of home.

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Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Japanese aesthetics — wabi-sabi mono no aware yugen?”

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