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Scenario

When friends disagree about the boundaries of their shared social creation

My roommate and I have been throwing dinner parties together for two years and they've become this amazing community tradition, but lately we have completely different ideas about who belongs in our space. She wants to keep expanding the circle while I feel like we're losing the intimacy that made these gatherings special, and now every invitation list becomes a subtle negotiation about the soul of what we're creating.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The success of a shared social experiment forces a reckoning about scale versus intimacy that neither creator anticipated.

Your guide for this
Mura
Mura works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Performance and the creative act?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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