Periagoge
Scenario

When creative friendships become mutually limiting

Our art-making friendship has evolved to the point where we've each become invested in a version of the other person's creative identity, and I think we're both performing the artist we think our friend needs us to be instead of just making the work that's actually emerging for us.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Your care for each other's artistic development has become a subtle form of creative control that constrains both of your evolutions.

Your guide for this
Mura
Mura works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Japanese aesthetics — wabi-sabi mono no aware yugen?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.