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Scenario

How to navigate friendship dynamics after major life changes

Our friend group has this running group chat where we used to joke about everything, but ever since Maya's divorce, Alex and I have started censoring ourselves because we don't know what's too much or what might hurt her. She keeps saying she wants things to be normal but normal included a lot of dark humor that now feels wrong and we're all just being polite strangers.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A friendship loses its authentic rhythm when care becomes indistinguishable from careful distance.

Your guide for this
Mura
Mura works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
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Peri

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