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Scenario

When friend groups develop mismatched expectations for shared activities

Our friend group started a monthly dinner where we cook elaborate themed meals together, but it's become clear that some of us want to treat it like a casual hangout while others want it to be a serious culinary project. No one wants to be the person who ruins the fun by bringing this up.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Different levels of investment in a group activity create tension that no one feels authorized to address directly.

Your guide for this
Mura
Mura works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

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Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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