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Why detachment in personal writing can feel like self-betrayal

I can only write about my life if I pretend someone else lived it and that distance feels like abandoning myself.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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The protective strategy of emotional distance conflicts with the desire for intimate connection to one's own experience.

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