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When perfectionism destroys the natural beauty you were trying to create

I spent all afternoon arranging flowers for a tea ceremony and realized I was trying to make them perfect instead of letting them just be what they are and now the whole thing feels forced

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The attempt to control beauty reveals a fundamental misunderstanding of its ephemeral nature.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Japanese aesthetics — wabi-sabi mono no aware yugen?”

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