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How imagined rejection prevents real submission

I want to submit to literary magazines but I keep imagining the rejection letters and feeling pre-emptively humiliated

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Anticipatory shame about possible failure creates actual failure by preventing the very attempts that could lead to success.

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