My best friend and I used to have these deep conversations during our weekly pool sessions, but ever since she got really into swimming for fitness she just wants to do laps and doesn't want to 'waste time' floating and talking anymore. I miss our old rhythm but feel selfish asking her to slow down her workout for my need to connect.
More people experience this than they realize.
One person's growth in discipline can feel like abandonment to someone who valued the relationship's original form.
“Where Are You with Water — drinking swimming immersion as practice?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.