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When card games with close friends become awkward and brief

My best friend and I used to have these marathon card game sessions where we'd talk about everything while playing, but now we barely get through one hand before she's distracted or making excuses to leave. I can't tell if she's going through something or if our friendship is just changing and I don't want to be clingy by bringing it up.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The fear of being needy prevents the very conversation that might restore intimacy to a struggling friendship.

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