My best friend and I used to stay up all night talking about everything and nothing, but now our conversations feel like we're both performing the role of 'successful adult' for each other. We update each other on achievements and plans but never admit when we're struggling or confused, and I miss the version of us that could be messy together.
More people experience this than they realize.
Both friends have unconsciously agreed to show only their highlight reels, creating a distance that neither acknowledges but both feel.
“Where Are You with Adult play — how to reclaim it?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.