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When old friendships struggle to maintain playful humor as life gets heavier

My best friend from college and I used to bond over making fun of our pretentious professors, but now when we try to do comedy about our adult lives, all our jokes feel bitter and cynical instead of playful. We're examining our disappointments through humor but we've lost the lightness that used to make our friendship feel safe and fun.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Their shared coping mechanism of humor has become infected with genuine resentment, threatening the foundation of their connection.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Stand-up comedy as examined life?”

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