My brother and I inherited our dad's extensive garden and we both want to honor his memory but we have completely different ideas about whether to maintain it exactly as he left it or adapt it to what we actually want to grow.
More people experience this than they realize.
A living memorial has become a source of conflict about how to honor the past while creating space for the present.
“Where Are You with Gardening and growing things?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.