My brother and I inherited our dad's house together and every conversation about what to do with it turns into this tense negotiation where we're both trying to honor dad's memory while dealing with practical realities and we've stopped being brothers who can joke about difficult things and become business partners who disagree.
More people experience this than they realize.
You've let shared responsibility replace shared grief and forgotten how to be allies in difficulty.
“Where Are You with Ecopsychology?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.