My brother and I promised our mom we'd keep up her evening garden ritual after she died but we both live far away now and the guilt of not being there every night is eating at both of us and we don't know how to honor her memory without destroying ourselves.
More people experience this than they realize.
Grief has transformed remembrance into rigid obligation, creating shame where there should be celebration of what was received.
“Where Are You with Sunrise and sunset as daily practice?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.