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When friend groups try to resurrect practices from a different life stage

My college friends and I have been trying to recreate our old tradition of rooftop sunset hangs now that we're all back in the same city but everyone has kids and jobs and it feels forced and sad compared to how easy it used to be when we were twenty.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The attempt to return to an earlier form of connection ignores how everyone has grown, creating nostalgia instead of presence.

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Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Sunrise and sunset as daily practice?”

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