My family has always done this elaborate holiday tradition with specific roles and ceremonies, but my siblings and I are all adults now and it feels performative rather than meaningful, yet none of us wants to be the one to say we should change it.
More people experience this than they realize.
The ritual that once bound you together now feels like a costume that no longer fits anyone.
“Where Are You with Ritual play and sacred games?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.