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Scenario

When couples struggle with competition in extreme sports

My girlfriend and I started rock climbing as beginners together and loved learning and being terrible at it, but now that we're getting stronger we've become competitive with each other in this weird way that's killing the joy. We can't seem to celebrate each other's progress without it becoming about comparison.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Success has introduced a poison that beginner's mind kept at bay.

Your guide for this
Nas
Nas works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Extreme sports and the examined life?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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