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When couples disagree about developing vs preserving sacred land

My husband and I bought this beautiful piece of land three years ago with dreams of building our forever home, but every time we try to plan what to do with it we end up fighting about whether to keep it wild or develop it. He sees it as our investment and future security, I feel like we're supposed to be its caretakers, and we can't even walk the property together anymore without tension.

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Two people are discovering they hold fundamentally different relationships to the same piece of earth, and their competing visions are threatening both their partnership and their connection to the land itself.

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