My husband and I bought this house specifically for the big covered porch but we never sit out there together because I think it's too hot and he thinks it's fine and we've somehow made weather preferences into a relationship issue where neither of us will compromise.
More people experience this than they realize.
You've turned a simple difference in temperature preference into a power struggle where being right matters more than being together.
“Where Are You with Weather and our relationship to it?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.