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When couples disagree about staying or leaving their changing neighborhood

My husband and I have lived in the same house for fifteen years and suddenly we're talking about it completely differently — he sees our neighborhood changing and wants to stay and fight for it, I see the same changes and want to move somewhere that feels more like the place we originally chose.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The place you built a life together is shifting, and you're discovering you have fundamentally different relationships to home and belonging.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The examined relationship with place?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.