My husband and I have three young kids and somewhere in the survival mode of parenting we stopped being people who make each other laugh and started being people who just coordinate schedules and we're both too tired to figure out how to find each other again but we miss actually liking each other.
More people experience this than they realize.
You've become co-managers of chaos and forgotten you chose each other for joy.
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