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Scenario

When couples lose their playfulness and become efficient roommates

My husband and I used to be silly together - making up voices for our cat, dancing badly in the kitchen, texting each other dumb memes during work. Now we just coordinate schedules and talk about what needs fixing around the house. We're efficient roommates who sleep in the same bed.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Sacred silliness has been sacrificed on the altar of adult responsibility, leaving the relationship functional but spiritually malnourished.

Your guide for this
Nas
Nas works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

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Peri

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