My husband and I used to be the couple that played pranks on each other and made stupid jokes and now we just discuss logistics and schedules and I miss who we were when we weren't so goddamn efficient. We both feel it but neither of us knows how to break the pattern without it feeling forced.
More people experience this than they realize.
The infrastructure of adult life has slowly suffocated the spontaneous joy that once made your partnership feel alive.
“Where Are You with Breathing and nature?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.