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When spiritual friendships become competitive rather than supportive

My meditation buddy and I used to sit together in comfortable silence and share insights afterward, but ever since she started studying with a different guru we've been subtly competing about whose practices are more authentic or advanced. Our friendship has become this weird spiritual one-upmanship where we're both trying to prove our devotion instead of supporting each other's path.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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Ego has infiltrated sacred friendship, turning spiritual companions into rivals rather than fellow travelers on the path.

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