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When parent-adult child relationships lose playfulness and become dutiful

My mom and I talk on the phone every week and catch up on news but we never laugh together anymore like we did when I was younger. Our conversations have become dutiful check-ins where we report on our lives but don't actually play or be silly. I think we both feel like we should be more serious now that I'm an adult.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The transition to adult relationship has mistakenly discarded the child-like joy that actually transcends age.

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