My partner and I have completely different relationships with pleasure — they think I'm too hedonistic and I think they're too rigid — and we can't even talk about what we actually want without it becoming a judgment session.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people are discovering their pleasure philosophies are fundamentally incompatible, creating shame and distance.
“Where Are You with Pleasure and its examined life?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.