My partner and I have started planning our pleasures like business meetings — we schedule date nights and discuss what we should enjoy and somehow turned everything spontaneous and delightful into another project to optimize. We both feel like we're performing happiness for each other instead of actually finding it together.
More people experience this than they realize.
The attempt to engineer delight has replaced the capacity to discover it organically together.
“Where Are You with Pleasure and its examined life?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.