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When couples lose the spark in their game nights together

My partner and I used to have epic board game nights where we'd stay up until 2am trash-talking over Scrabble and now when we try to play anything it feels forced and awkward, like we're performing fun instead of having it. We both keep suggesting we should play games more but then we just scroll our phones instead.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The playful intimacy that games once created has been replaced by the performance of trying to recreate it.

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Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Games — board games and card games?”

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