My partner and I used to throw this amazing Halloween party every year that everyone looked forward to, but the last two times felt forced and exhausting and we both just went through the motions. We haven't talked about whether to do it again this year because I think we're both afraid the magic is just gone.
More people experience this than they realize.
The ritualistic joy that once bonded you has become performative obligation, and neither of you knows how to resurrect genuine celebration.
“Where Are You with Festivals and celebrations?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.