My partner grew up religious and I've always been secular, and we thought we'd found common ground in seeing science as spiritual, but when we talk about having kids we realize we have completely different ideas about what that actually means for raising a family.
More people experience this than they realize.
You've discovered that 'spiritual but scientific' means entirely different things to each of you when stakes get real.
“Where Are You with Scientific naturalism as spirituality?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.