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Scenario

When couples disagree about whether escapism counts as legitimate play

My partner keeps calling our video game sessions together 'just escapism' while I think they're genuine play, and this has become about more than gaming - it's about whether play has to be productive or educational or if it can just be pure fun. We're basically arguing about the purpose of play without admitting that's what we're doing.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You're wrestling with whether play needs justification or purpose, or if purposelessness is precisely what makes it play.

Your guide for this
Nas
Nas works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with What is play — a philosophical definition?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.